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On Not Meeting Nazis Halfway
Rebecca
Solnit
November
19, 2020
Literary
Hub
When
Trump won the 2016 election—while losing the popular vote—the New York
Times seemed obsessed with running features about what Trump voters
were feeling and thinking. These pieces treated them as both an exotic species
and people it was our job to understand, understand being that word that means
both to comprehend and to grant some sort of indulgence to. Now that Trump has
lost the 2020 election, the Los Angeles Times has given their
editorial page over to letters from Trump voters, who had exactly the sort of
predictable things to say we have been hearing for far more than four years,
thanks to the New York Times and what came to seem like about
11,000 other news outlets hanging on the every word of every white supremacist
they could convince to go on the record.
The
letters editor headed this section with, “In my decade editing this page, there
has never been a period when quarreling readers have seemed so implacably at
odds with each other, as if they get their facts and values from different
universes. As one small attempt to bridge the divide, we are providing today a
page full of letters from Trump supporters.” The implication is the usual one:
we—urban multiethnic liberal-to-radical only-partly-Christian America—need to
spend more time understanding MAGA America. The demands do not go the other
way. Fox and Ted Cruz and the Federalist have not chastised their audiences, I
feel pretty confident, with urgings to enter into discourse with, say, Black
Lives Matter activists, rabbis, imams, abortion providers, undocumented
valedictorians, or tenured lesbians. When only half the divide is being tasked
with making the peace, there is no peace to be made, but there is a unilateral
surrender on offer. We are told to consider this bipartisanship, but the very
word means both sides abandon their partisanship, and Mitch McConnell and company
have absolutely no interest in doing that.
Paul
Waldman wrote a valuable column in the Washington Post a
few years ago, in which he pointed out that this discord is valuable fuel to
right-wing operatives: “The assumption is that if Democrats simply choose to
deploy this powerful tool of respect, then minds will be changed and votes will
follow. This belief, widespread though it may be, is stunningly naive.” He
notes that the sense of being disrespected “doesn’t come from the policies
advocated by the Democratic Party, and it doesn’t come from the things
Democratic politicians say. Where does it come from? An entire industry that’s
devoted to convincing white people that liberal elitists look down on them. The
right has a gigantic media apparatus that is devoted to convincing people that
liberals disrespect them, plus a political party whose leaders all understand
that that idea is key to their political project and so join in the chorus at
every opportunity.”
There’s
also often a devil’s bargain buried in all this, that you flatter and, yeah,
respect these white people who think this country is theirs by throwing other
people under the bus—by disrespecting immigrants and queer people and feminists
and their rights and views. And you reinforce that constituency’s sense that
they matter more than other people when you pander like this, and pretty much
all the problems we’ve faced over the past four years, to say nothing of the
last five hundred, come from this sense of white people being more important than
nonwhites, Christians than non-Christians, native-born than immigrant, male
than female, straight than queer, cis-gender than trans.
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Supreme
Court Justice Samuel Alito just complained that “you can’t say that marriage is
a union between one man and one woman. Now it’s considered bigotry.” This is a
standard complaint of the right: the real victim is the racist who has been
called a racist, not the victim of his racism, the real oppression is to be
impeded in your freedom to oppress. And of course Alito is disingenuous;
you can say that stuff against marriage equality (and he did).
Then other people can call you a bigot, because they get to have opinions too,
but in his scheme such dissent is intolerable, which is fun coming from a
member of the party whose devotees wore “fuck your feelings” shirts at its
rallies and popularized the term “snowflake.”
Nevertheless,
we get this hopelessly naïve version of centrism, of the idea that if we’re
nicer to the other side there will be no other side, just one big happy family.
This inanity is also applied to the questions of belief and fact and principle,
with some muddled cocktail of moral relativism and therapists’ “everyone’s
feelings are valid” applied to everything. But the truth is not some compromise
halfway between the truth and the lie, the fact and the delusion, the
scientists and the propagandists. And the ethical is not halfway between white
supremacists and human rights activists, rapists and feminists, synagogue
massacrists and Jews, xenophobes and immigrants, delusional transphobes and
trans people. Who the hell wants unity with Nazis until and unless they stop
being Nazis?
I
think our side, if you’ll forgive my ongoing shorthand and binary logic, has
something to offer everyone and we can and must win in the long run by offering
it, and offering it via better stories and better means to make those stories
reach everyone. We actually want to see everyone have a living wage, access to
healthcare, and lives unburdened by medical, student, and housing debt. We want
this to be a thriving planet when the babies born this year turn 80 in 2100.
But the recommended compromise means abandoning and diluting our stories, not
fortifying and improving them (and finding ways for them to actually reach the
rest of America, rather than having them warped or shut out altogether). I’ve
spent much of my adult life watching politicians like Bill Clinton and, at
times, Barack Obama sell out their own side to placate the other, with dismal
results, and I pray that times have changed enough that Joe Biden will not do
it all over again.
Among
the other problems with the LA Times’s editor’s statement is that
one side has a lot of things that do not deserve to be called facts, and their
values are too often advocacy for harming many of us on the other side. Not to
pick on one news outlet: Sunday, the Washington Post ran a
front-page sub-head about the #millionMAGAmarch that read “On stark display in
the nation’s capital were two irreconcilable versions of America, each refusing
to accept what the other considered to be undeniable fact.” Except that one
side did have actual facts, notably that Donald J. Trump lost the election, and
the other had hot and steamy delusions.
I
can comprehend, and do, that lots of people don’t believe climate change is
real, but is there some great benefit in me listening, again, to those who
refuse to listen to the global community of scientists and see the evidence
before our eyes? A lot of why the right doesn’t “understand” climate
change is that climate change tells us everything is connected, everything we
do has far-reaching repercussions, and we’re responsible for the whole, a
message at odds with their idealization of a version of freedom that smells a
lot like disconnection and irresponsibility. But also climate denial is the
result of fossil fuel companies and the politicians they bought spreading propaganda
and lies for profit, and I understand that better than the people who
believe it. If half of us believe the earth is flat, we do not make peace by
settling on it being halfway between round and flat. Those of us who know it’s
round will not recruit them through compromise. We all know that you do better
bringing people out of delusion by being kind and inviting than by mocking
them, but that’s inviting them to come over, which is not the same thing as
heading in their direction.
The
editor spoke of facts, and he spoke of values. In the past four years too many
members of the right have been emboldened to carry out those values as
violence. One of the t-shirts at the #millionMAGAmarch this weekend: “Pinochet
did nothing wrong.” Except stage a coup, torture and disappear tens of
thousands of Chileans, and violate laws and rights. A right-wing conspiracy to
overthrow the Michigan government and kidnap Governor Gretchen Whitmer was
recently uncovered, racists shot some Black Lives Matter protestors and plowed
their cars into a lot of protests this summer. The El Paso anti-immigrant
massacre was only a year ago; the Pittsburgh synagogue massacre two years ago,
the Charlottesville white-supremacist rally in which Heather Heyer was killed
three years ago (and of course there have been innumerable smaller incidents
all along). Do we need to bridge the divide between Nazis and non-Nazis?
Because part of the problem is that we have an appeasement economy, a system
that is supposed to be greased by being nice to the other side.
Appeasement
didn’t work in the 1930s and it won’t work now. That doesn’t mean that people
have to be angry or hate back or hostile, but it does mean they have to stand
on principle and defend what’s under attack. There are situations in which
there is no common ground worth standing on, let alone hiking over to. If Nazis
wanted to reach out and find common ground and understand us, they probably
would not have had that tiki-torch parade full of white men bellowing “Jews
will not replace us” and, also, they would not be Nazis. Being Nazis, white
supremacists, misogynists, transphobes is all part of a project of refusing to
understand as part of refusing to respect. It is a minority position but by
granting it deference we give it, over and over, the power of a majority
position.
Is
there some great benefit in me listening, again, to those who refuse to listen
to the global community of scientists and see the evidence before our eyes?
In
fact the whole Republican Party, since long before Trump, has committed itself
to the antidemocratic project of trying to create a narrower electorate rather
than win a wider vote. They have invested in voter suppression as a key tactic
to win, and the votes they try to suppress are those of Black voters and other
voters of color. That is a brutally corrupt refusal to allow those citizens the
rights guaranteed to them by law. Having failed to prevent enough Black people
from voting in the recent election, they are striving mightily to discard their
votes after the fact. What do you do with people who think they matter more
than other people? Catering to them reinforces that belief, that they are
central to the nation’s life, they are more important, and their views must
prevail. Deference to intolerance feeds intolerance.
Years
ago the linguist George Lakoff wrote that Democrats operate as kindly
nurturance-oriented mothers to the citizenry, Republicans as stern
discipline-oriented fathers. But the relationship between the two parties is a
marriage, between an overly deferential wife and an overbearing and often
abusive husband (think of how we got our last two Supreme Court justices and
failed to get Merrick Garland). The Hill just ran a headline
that declared “GOP Senators say that a Warren nomination would divide
Republicans.” I am pretty sure they didn’t run headlines that said, “Democratic
Senators say a Pompeo (or Bolton or Perdue or Sessions) nomination would divide
Democrats.” I grew up in an era where wives who were beaten were expected to do
more to soothe their husbands and not challenge them, and this carries on as
the degrading politics of our abusive national marriage.
Some
of us don’t know how to win. Others can’t believe they ever lost or will lose
or should, and their intransigence constitutes a kind of threat. That’s why the
victors of the recent election are being told in countless ways to go grovel
before the losers. This unilateral surrender is how misogyny and racism are
baked into a lot of liberal and centrist as well as right-wing positions, this
idea that some people need to be flattered and buffered even when they are
harming the people who are supposed to do the flattering and buffering, even
when they are the minority, even when they’re breaking the law or lost the
election. Lakoff didn’t quite get to the point of saying that this nation lives
in a household full of what domestic abuse advocates call coercive control, in
which one partner’s threats, intimidations, devaluations, and general shouting
down control the other.
This
is what marriages were before feminism, with the abused wife urged to placate
and soothe the furious husband. Feminism is good for everything, and it’s a
good model for seeing that this is both outrageous and a recipe for failure. It
didn’t work in marriages, and it never was the abused partner’s job to prevent
the abuse by surrendering ground and rights and voice. It is not working as
national policy either. Now is an excellent time to stand on principle and
defend what we value, and I believe it’s a winning strategy too, or at least
brings us closer to winning than surrender does. Also, it’s worth repeating, we
won, and being gracious in victory is still being victorious.
Rebecca
Solnit’s first media job was in fact-checking and her last book is the
memoir Recollections of My Nonexistence. She’s sent a lot of mail to her
nieces and nephews during the pandemic.
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